I see. Indeed, I don’t need a character to be like myself. I like when there are relatable parts but usually its spread out over the whole cast, little moments. I guess this is the big difference with moe and thus most other SOL as you say. In moe anime, the characters are not modeled to reflect the audience but instead something that the audience considers lovable. And thus generating a strong feeling of caring for the character and wanting them to be happy and safe. It’s an interesting topic. It only makes sense that this is a niche thing and general audiences would like something like BTR more. I must have sunk to deep into the moe hole and my perspective has warped.

Interesting to hear about Kinmoza. I put it right next to Gochiusa. I remember watching it and feeling really happy, it was pure sugar for the soul. I don’t think you need to rewatch it, it’s not a deep anime that requires a second watch to appreciate. Taste differs. Such shows as Kinmoza and Gochiusa is mostly just how you vibe with them in my opinion. Not too much thinking, just a lot of feeling. Whatever you feel is the truth.

And there is no way you could type too much in the comments. As you know I am guilty of that as well :)