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  • WhoRoger@lemmy.worldOPtoLemmy@lemmy.mlDo people not read messages?
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    1 year ago

    Are you for real? If I see that someone is posting daily in a community, they’re obviously passionate about the topic, and I send them a message politely offering them to be a mod, that’s spam? Jesus Christ, what do you expect before being allowed to send someone message, a written invite with a cake?

    This is the kind of nonsense that gets people to throw the “snowflake” moniker.

    For the record, a bunch of people respond with “I’m honoured, but I’m too busy, sorry” kind of reply, and some happily join.










  • WhoRoger@lemmy.worldtoLemmy@lemmy.mlLemmy is being gentrified
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    1 year ago

    I was on Reddit and I’m feeling slightly insulted. “We” from Reddit may just as well call the old guards snobs, how’d you like that?

    Honestly, the OG Lemmy instances had a major problem, that they weren’t very clear on what kind of users and community they want. The old timers might have known, but to the new people it wasn’t clear.

    As a result, tons of people were signing up to lemmy.ml and beehaw, because those were the two on top of the list.

    Then these two begun to get more picky about new users and content, and some other instances like lemmy.world spun up as general purpose for everyone, and most people “from Reddit” just signed up to those.

    So now the OG instances are back to being special purpose, why are you still complaining?

    I guess you can always kick everyone who signed to lemmy.ml in the last 3 weeks, and lemmy.world can defederate from everyone, exactly as intended in the design of Lemmy and the Fediverse. /s





  • Maybe this was not done intentionally, but now there is a post with a list of ‘health communities on Lemmy’ with the first entry guiding to exploding heads. https://lemmy.world/post/396561

    I’m building that list and no, it wasn’t intentional. It being first is completely accidental. As you can see, “general health” communities are at the top, and well the one from xheads is the most general purpose (another one is on Midwest US and the other is Mander so more scientific).

    I didn’t know or even care where the communities come from. In the post I clearly state I don’t vouch for any of them, and people can let me know if they think some don’t belong.

    I called for help or advice on multiple occasions, guess how many people offered any? Zero.

    Honestly until this post I didn’t even know there’s any controversy with that instance. I never visited it, it’s just been under my radar. I know some instances don’t like other instances and it just becomes noise to me, honestly.

    I don’t know what would you have me do here? Remove the link? What other links should I remove because some instances have some oddball users? Should I remove Lemmygrad links too?

    I’m not claiming to be the Red Cross or anything, but I was hoping to have a neutral list that’s as complete as possible.

    This may seem like a problem specific to this list of mine, but see how easy to suddenly be indirectly accused of supporting nazis or something. Let’s not be so hasty alright?

    Btw, I was just about to try to figure out how or if to include lgbtq+ matters in the health community, and wanted to go ask some actual lgbtq+ people because I want their input rather than just guess myself. Now I’m wondering if I’d also be accused of being a provocateur or something else for trying to be open to everyone.






  • Moving profile to another instance would be great.

    But for now, I really wish that instances would be absolutely clear of their purpose, political leaning, restrictions etc. Some are - like Lemmygrad, Mander.xyz or Lemmynsfw, you’ll get the gist of what they’re for very quickly.

    But other might catch people off guard, like Lemmy.ml or Beehaw when they make some changes that are entirely logical to them, but not super clear to users.

    It’s especially awkward since these two used to be the biggest instances.

    And then there are the small instances that come with their own set of problems.

    Can’t blame people for congregating on a handful largest, neutral instances then. Even if that’s not to the liking of some people.